17th September 2014 - EP 112 thoughts
"Zindagi se rishta nibhana mushkil ho gaya hai"
Pragya is worst case of badly written female character. Even the 18th Century Pamela Andrews the Maid Servant in Richardson's Epistolatory Novel (the earliest Novel in Restoration times of literature) had more spine in the name of Virtue Upholding than the Modern 21st Century Pragya the Professor.
Do I not have Indian examples of exemplary ordinary female characters that refuse to be played unless they are getting their part of the bargain? Well, we have...but when discussing creative elements that called ridicule and mockery, I have only Richardson's characters coming to my mind. [Me: LOL]
So I was saying even Pamela was better in her "Virtue Rewarded" paradigm than Pragya's conflict of "Zindagi se rishta nibhana mushkil ho gaya hai". She is one big hypocrite complaining to God saying like that while sleeping in the balcony. Didn't she come back to the hell hole after she had her "Mother Rewarded" Act all pulled up nicely. So why the tears?! Why not have some self-respect and stop shedding those tears.
Advice to Pragya:
Be Bindaas, even if you have to choose a silly life. Please don't show your sorry and teary face ever again. You chose that life for yourself and you better live it with a smile. Showing that sorry face of yours, you spoil the comedy that we can enjoy from watching the lampoon character of your husbands.[Me: Stern Smile]
We are not Pragya to understand what she is undergoing especially when she behaves in most ridiculous manner and irrational manner removed from any human understanding. Even when sleeping in Balcony without any bedsheet the first time, she was able to get and give water to Abhi taking care of his sneezing. She had no antagonism towards the man who was making her sleep in Balcony denying all conjugal rights by marrying her with intention to ruin her happiness. Hence seeing her that way, Pragya is Pragya. She is capable of living a lie everyday. If she can handle that stress, why should we bother. And sympathy to Pragya's situation...No way.
If Pragya accepted what she wanted, got what she wanted, her dilemma is no dilemma to me. her conflict is pointless to me. In my opinion and wishful thinking there are n number of ways in which what she did and underwent could have been done much better, keeping her self respect and pride in tact. She need not beg and hug and shed tears. But Pragya chose to do a "Main kahan jaaongi" Act before husband and slapping Tanu saying I am still the legal wife. So what more she wants ? She wants to be a doormat before husband and lioness before Tanu and Loving Daughter, Sister before mother and World. She is getting all that she wants !!! So stop the tears will you. You happily slept in Balcony instead of going and telling Dadi how duped you are in this marriage before. Now you repeat the scene again. What are you expecting...not to see a deja vu of that scene before.
And lastly if I am watching Pragya's tortuous face amidst lot of other potential entertaining comedy, I need her to stop crying and end that melodrama. There is a reason, you came back to Abhi's life even after being thrown out, so you better get a grip and live happy being there else, just go to some Women Help Cell. You are after all the legal wife, you have all rights to fire anyone. Just spare us your drama of "Zindagi se Rishta Nibhaana Mushkil ho gaya". At the present Vantage point, almost every other character than Pragya is acceptable and more deserving to watch their farce from Indian TV World's Top rated show. Haque hai mera entertainment ke liye. For ex: the lampoon act of Pragya's husband was hilarious. Hell! See how happy you have made him by going to the Balcony. There you go, you win another feather in your crown for being Savitri of your husband !!! [Me: LOL]
Footnote: I wrote this originally in India Forums.
We are not Pragya to understand what she is undergoing especially when she behaves in most ridiculous manner and irrational manner removed from any human understanding. Even when sleeping in Balcony without any bedsheet the first time, she was able to get and give water to Abhi taking care of his sneezing. She had no antagonism towards the man who was making her sleep in Balcony denying all conjugal rights by marrying her with intention to ruin her happiness. Hence seeing her that way, Pragya is Pragya. She is capable of living a lie everyday. If she can handle that stress, why should we bother. And sympathy to Pragya's situation...No way.
If Pragya accepted what she wanted, got what she wanted, her dilemma is no dilemma to me. her conflict is pointless to me. In my opinion and wishful thinking there are n number of ways in which what she did and underwent could have been done much better, keeping her self respect and pride in tact. She need not beg and hug and shed tears. But Pragya chose to do a "Main kahan jaaongi" Act before husband and slapping Tanu saying I am still the legal wife. So what more she wants ? She wants to be a doormat before husband and lioness before Tanu and Loving Daughter, Sister before mother and World. She is getting all that she wants !!! So stop the tears will you. You happily slept in Balcony instead of going and telling Dadi how duped you are in this marriage before. Now you repeat the scene again. What are you expecting...not to see a deja vu of that scene before.
And lastly if I am watching Pragya's tortuous face amidst lot of other potential entertaining comedy, I need her to stop crying and end that melodrama. There is a reason, you came back to Abhi's life even after being thrown out, so you better get a grip and live happy being there else, just go to some Women Help Cell. You are after all the legal wife, you have all rights to fire anyone. Just spare us your drama of "Zindagi se Rishta Nibhaana Mushkil ho gaya". At the present Vantage point, almost every other character than Pragya is acceptable and more deserving to watch their farce from Indian TV World's Top rated show. Haque hai mera entertainment ke liye. For ex: the lampoon act of Pragya's husband was hilarious. Hell! See how happy you have made him by going to the Balcony. There you go, you win another feather in your crown for being Savitri of your husband !!! [Me: LOL]
Footnote: I wrote this originally in India Forums.
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